In my research study for my book Pleased for No Reason, which focuses on the core practices of unconditionally happy people, I discovered that a person of the major ways we burglarize ourselves of happiness in life is seeming like a victim. I first became aware of individuals’s target patterns in my days as a corporate fitness instructor. They all claimed yes. Whoever was late would have to stand in front of the course and also sing their secondary school battle song or a tune I chose if they could not …